The term “irresistibly attractive” refers to people, ideas, possibilities, things etc … that come to you instead of chasing after them or trying to pull them onto your side.
Most people believe that attractiveness is a purely external matter (e.g, beauty). Well, wrong thought.
So-called character traits such as character, charisma, charm or intelligence are in reality much more appealing than the “good” looks.
But how do you increase your attractiveness?
If you need it, it literally runs away. Satisfy your personal and financial needs with only the essentials. Show your environment how happy you are with a humble attitude to life and you will be attractive and seductive to other people.
Have big plans
Attraction arises when there is a healthy vacuum between you and what you want. The larger the (manageable) distance, the greater the attraction. People with visions have a magical effect on others.
Stop the holes in your life
Why and by what are you drained? Who is to blame? Stop these holes by expanding your limits and standards , processing and processing your past. Attraction does not come if you are not ready for it. So be ready.
Pay attention to what is happening around you NOW
Attraction is alive at the moment, not in the future. How do you react to the possibilities that are offered to you now? Attention is one of the keys to being attractive.
Learn from people who are naturally attractive
Some people are, others are not. Surround yourself with people who are extraordinarily attractive to you and imitate them. Do not be shy and ask for help. Be ready for change in your life – in thinking, in your self-expression, in action and behavior.
Increase your self-confidence
Sounds trite, but it is necessary. Attraction is a subliminal phenomenon. You will not have it if you increase your self-esteem , and your awareness of others around you. Do the following: say your opinion, take the initiative, pay attention to a well-groomed appearance, compliment others, increase your competence, and much more. That always helps!
Control your values
We all have something to contribute. Do it without expecting something in return. If you do not have enough to contribute, then learn a new skill. When you selflessly contribute to the lives of others – be they potential customers, friends, clients, family, etc. – you automatically become more attractive.
Tell the truth
That means more than not lying. There is a level to reach when you speak the truth. A level where you feel absolutely liberated and almost innocent to others.
Have reserves in every area
If you have enough money, time, love, ideas, opportunities, and friends, you become a magnet for such things – because you DO NOT NEED them, you HAVE them.
Do what YOU want to do in your life
We are all influenced by must and must. So probably what you really want is always suppressed. But do what you want now. Feel free!